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THE UNRESOLVED

Posted by pinellaspascoparanormal on August 3, 2011 at 11:40 PM

    I have been wanting to write this blog for a long time but have just been too busy. This blog is about  the "unresolved" cases. The cases that we can not resolve, and the hauntings that we can not stop. I wish I could tell my cleints and the world at large that all hauntings can be stopped or resolved or cleansed away, but that is simply not the case. In my work with hostile haunts and other types of hauntings, I have seen a few that can not and will not be resolved because they have specific circumstances that just do not allow for an ourtsider, or sometimes anyone to interfere or affect the situation. These unresolvable cases come in all forms. I wish to talk about some of these cases and why they are next to impossible to resolve.I also would like to have anyone's comments on this topic or their stories of such cases, that they have seen. These are common kinds of hauntings that I have seen that are almost impossible to resolve.


1 The Karmic haunt:

The first kind of case that I have dealt with many times that we could not resolve is a karmic haunt. A Karmic haunt is a haunting that has come about because of something that the client did to encite the wrath of the spirit. Karmic hauntings are something that we usually step away from, as we know that the only chance of them being resolved is if the client makes some sort of restitution, in some way for whatever they did to bring the haunting about. People sometimes think that prayers can resolve everything and that their efforst are not or should not be warranted to stop the spirit from tormenting them. I have had clients that did not want to hear that some action on their part was required to stop the haunting. Other clients were willing to admit to their fault in the matter and willing to try and do what was necessary to resolve the issue.Sometimes under some circumstances that can be possible, but other times it is not possible, as they can not do whatever the spirit demands, in order for them to fogive and forget. Murder victims, and others whose death was the result of another's actions in anyway, sometimes just will not be stopped in their campaign for revenge. No amount of prayers seem to help and all negotiations with the spirit seem to hit a brick wall. Karma comes in many forms and apirits do participate in it, sometimes bringing it first hand to the door of those who wronged them or their loved ones, for that matter.

2 The Black sheep saympathy haunt:

The second kind of haunting which sometimes can not be resolved is the one where the client has a bond to the spirit, which does not allow for them to dismiss the spirit from their home and their life. We have all lost loved ones and we miss them, we pine for them, and sometimes we bring them to us. Depending on the spirit's emotional stability and their acceptance of their death, this can have some veyr bad results. I have seen many cases which I will call "black sheep" syndrome. For example, if you have someone in your life, whether a relative, a lover, friend etc, who is a negative, aggressive and troublesome fixture in your life, yet who you still hold a soft spot for, in your heart, for whatever reason, then you keep them around and you suffer at their hands. This is something many people do all the time. It could be because of co-dependency, fear, apathy, or because they were yoru blood and you can never turn away from your blood even if they are ruining your life, Sometimes, even after they die, you don't push them out of your heart. Since they probably have not changed just because they may have passed from this life, if they were a bad person, then they may come back to cause pain to others. They may be very angry or resentful of being dead, even if their death was caused by their own recklessness or disregard for life. So they may return as jealous, bitter, spirits to punish those who are still alive or even attach to them, in order to try and experience the things they can no longer partake in, in this world. If you hold onto the sympathy, the sentiment, or that little soft spot for them because they may have had one good trait or whatever, then you give them a continual conduit to you. Then you will never be rid of them because some part of you still accepts them conciously or unconciously. On this side of the veil and the other, "tough love" only goes so far and if it does not work then you have to sever any warm feelings for that person or let them take you down with them. This kind of case can never be resolved until the living person changes their mind about the dead person and pushes them out of their heart, their home and their life. I once had a case where I told a spirit that the familyt did not want them there and the spirit replied via EVP saying "That's what you think!" If anyone in the home is accepting of the spirit, ten the spirit can remain there. 

3  The family intervention haunt:

The third kind of case that usually can not be reolved is what I call the "family intervention" case. This happens when a deceased loved on decides to come back to try and guide or chastise,another living loved one,  who the spirit feels is headed down the wrong road. I see this all the time. If the spirit is justified and the living loved one is doing something really detrimental to themselves or others than the spirit that is doing the haunting is actually out for the loved ones best interest and therefore can not be driven away by any traditional means of house cleansing. If a living person, let's say, is doing something self destructive, morally wrong, or even criminal, to the point where they are jeopardizing their lives and those of their other family members, and the spirit of that person's Grandma, {for instance}comes back to raise hell, then that is a fmaily intervention. This kind of case has to run it's course to it's conslusion and neither God or the haunts resolutionist is going to stop it. 

4 The grief bond haunt:

 The fourth kind of case that I see often is the "grief bond." This is a  haunting that begins shortly after a death of a loved one, where both the deceased and the living person left behind, just can not let go of eachother. One is grieving for the prson who passed away and the dead person is grieveing not only over their own death, but the pain of the loved one left behind. This happens when the living person left behind does not want to accept that the person is gone from this world and the deceased loved one does not want to leave this world, or this life.If contact is made and kept up by both parties, through evp, psychic communication, etc. then it keep the deceased person in a confused state of limbo where they are still apart of this world, and not ready to embrace the next one. This is a bad situation because both parties stagate and neither lives the life they have now, [one here and one on the other side], to their full potential. There is a lot of truth in the old saying that "if you love someone truly, then you have to love them enough to let them go." 

5 The Doomed Location haunt:

 This kind of  haunting happens because the location is just a permanent energy portal of some kind, that is a permanent part of the astral or etheric terrain, that will not be changed, moved or affected by the living on this earth. Bascially this means that there are some places where we are not meant to be living, because they serve as a thoroughfare for other entities, or a portal of some kind between the worlds, where things come and go on a continous basis. For example, let's say that your or someone else built your house on land that was once a cemetery, a burial ground, or a power center of some kind, that serves to be a transition point or a travel pathway for spirits of all kinds.  Or perhaps a very tragic and monumental event took place there like a disaster or a battle in which many people died and had much emotion and or angst before they died there. Portal exist wherever there was a need for a tranistion door, due to a massive amount of death in that location. There are also other types of areas that are conducive to paranormal activity because they contain several features, which feed energy of all kinds into that location. For example: I kow of a very haunted area in a small town. This area has an interface, a power plant, Native American land and burial grounds,  two other graveyards, and ley lines running right underneath it. Talk about a power center? Trying to live in a home in an area like any of these is like trying to live in the middle of the airport. You are going to have much people traffic there all the time. Dead people can be just as disruptive to your daily life as living people, so you may have no choice but to move if you ever want to have peace.


When it comes to resolving any haunting, the first and most important responsibility lies with the person being haunted. In order for any haunts resolutionist team to help, the cleint has to be honest and upfront with the team, about what they feel may be going on and why. A haunts specialist can't just come in and solve your problem and chase off your spirit, if there is some underlying circumstance that you fail to mention, out of fear, guilt, or you're considering it too personal, to relay some type of information. While most hauntings are benign and many may be totally unrelated to the cleint at all, "some" hauntings are the direct result of the client's actions in one way or another. This can happen even without the client being aware of it right away. It may be something that happened ages ago that you forgot? You should always voice any thoughts or ideas you have have about who or what might be present in your home and why. Maybe the thing you thought had nothing to do with it, is exactly the thing you overlooked? If you are experiencing what you think could be a karmic, haunt or some other kind ofhaunt that directly involves you then it is in your best interest to level with the person who you call  in to help, and also to listen to their advice, once the identity of the spirit and their agenda has been verifed. Total honesty and total co-operation are essential elements to resolving the haunting together. Also remember that in the course of trying to resolve a haunting the spirit may divulge some things that you failed to mention to your haunts resolutionist. Better they know all the facts and possibilities to the best of your knowledge, if you think you know who or what may be haunting and why, directly from you. This way, everyone is on the same page and better prepared to deal with whatever comes out or arises during the course of the investigation and attempted cleansing of the case.

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7 Comments

Reply Shawn
4:15 AM on August 4, 2011 
As always, very informative and thought provoking. Thanks!
Reply pinellaspascoparanormal
1:56 AM on August 12, 2011 
Thanks Shawn.
Reply gail@spiritlight
7:04 PM on September 11, 2011 
Great information...thank you!
Reply pinellaspascoparanormal
12:25 AM on September 12, 2011 
gail@spiritlight says...
Great information...thank you!


Thank You Gail for reading the blog and taking the time to comment.
Reply Dave Wolf
1:35 PM on October 11, 2011 
I've heard the living can imprint their energy on an environment, I wonder how the living person?s energy can become a residual haunt. If it?s related to emotionally traumatic events the living must be leaving imprints on the environment throughout our lives.
Reply pinellaspascoparanormal
10:51 PM on October 13, 2011 
Dave Wolf says...
I've heard the living can imprint their energy on an environment, I wonder how the living person?s energy can become a residual haunt. If it?s related to emotionally traumatic events the living must be leaving imprints on the environment throughout our lives.

Yes Dave I think the living leave their imprint as well. A young man was once run over with a car ,three times by his girlfriend. She then left him in a rural cemetery to die, and he screamed for help for over an hour before someone heard him and help arrived. You can record his screams with a tape recorder in this location late at night. Since he is still alive, it makes sense that this event was recorder somehow on the ethyer in that location forever.
Reply crazygirl
6:28 PM on October 25, 2011 
Awesome information-thanks so much:)